Build Calm, Connected Homes

Practical, brain-based coaching to raise emotionally resilient and spiritually grounded kids.

Whether you’re facing toddler tantrums, teenage disconnection, or your own parenting triggers, these sessions offer Spirit-led insight, encouragement, and practical tools to help you cultivate peace, strengthen connection, and create a nurturing space that reflects God’s design for freedom and connection.

Before meeting with Vanderly, I struggled with uncertainty and anxiety with regards to how to best raise my three daughters. Often, it felt as though there was little progress being made, my efforts were exhaustingly futile, and that all the while, the time of their childhood was quickly waning. After meeting regularly with Vanderly, I became not only more confident in my parenting choices, but also better able to identify my girls’ needs and how to respond effectively. While we will always have something to improve on, I have noticed so much more peace and harmony in my relationships, an increased ability to regulate my own emotions, and a clearer lens from which to view both my children and myself.

Rachel & David

Parenting Client

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You Don't Have to Parent Alone

Parenting can feel overwhelming when tantrums, disconnection, or exhaustion set in. These sessions offer more than advice — they create space for grace, Spirit-led wisdom, and the tools you need to nurture your family with confidence.

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Practical & Spirit-Led Guidance

Each 60-minute online session blends neuroscience-informed strategies with biblical insight. You’ll learn how the brain grows, what helps children regulate emotions, and how to build lasting connection rooted in Christ’s love.

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Raising Resilient, Joy-Filled Kids

Beyond managing behavior, these sessions help you cultivate homes of peace where children feel safe, secure, and delighted in. You’ll walk away with tools that not only calm the chaos but also align your parenting with God’s design for joy and freedom.

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Book Your Parenting Session

Choose a single session or a 6-session package. Step into a new rhythm of parenting where science and Spirit meet — and where both you and your children can flourish in God’s presence.

For parents facing toddler tantrums, teenage disconnection, or personal parenting challenges.

These 1:1 coaching sessions equip parents with the tools to understand their child’s brain and respond with grace, not reactivity. Learn to regulate behavior, foster emotional health, and create rhythms where peace and connection can flourish.

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Meet Vanderly

Vanderly helps parents understand the emotional world and brain development of their children so they can parent with wisdom, connection, and grace. Drawing from decades of experience as a neuroscience coach, counselor, and Montessori educator, she equips families with practical tools rooted in emotional intelligence, attachment, and biblical truth, helping parents build strong, secure relationships that shape their children’s hearts and minds for life.

Developed mentoring curriculum for teens and young adults.

Parent Coach helping families build emotionally connected homes.

Former Montessori educator and director of 3 schools.

Provided leadership for the care and development of a children’s home overseas.

Hear From Lives Transformed

My daughter Ioved learning strategies and brain based science about what was going on with her emotions and behaviors yet also being supported spiritually. Vanderly was able to equip my daughter with practical steps and also empower and educate her. The growth I have seen in her is amazing and I wouldn't trust anyone else with helping my family and family!
Abby
Parent
As a parent, there’s nothing more valuable to me than knowing someone is speaking life, truth, and wisdom into your child—and that’s exactly what Vanderly has done for my daughter.

Over the past season of coaching, Vanderly has helped my 10-year-old not only regulate her emotions and express her feelings more clearly, but she’s also taught her how to listen to God’s voice and trust herself.

The growth I’ve seen is beautiful: more peace, more confidence, more self-awareness. I’ve felt such peace knowing my daughter is being poured into by someone who truly sees her, believes in her, and points her to the Lord.

I’m incredibly grateful for Vanderly’s role in my daughter’s life and wholeheartedly recommend her to any parent looking for a coach who blends emotional growth, spiritual depth, and genuine care!

Deanna
Parent
Working with Vanderly has transformed my understanding of joy as deeply relational and empowered my parenting through concise, impactful one-liners. Her ability to listen, offer profound spiritual direction, and discern God’s voice in real-time has been invaluable as I navigate the complexities of homeschooling, motherhood, and relationships. She’s truly a gift!

Jessica
Parent
My husband and I had an amazing experience doing premarital coaching with Vanderly! She met us exactly where we were, offering honest guidance without judgment. We really appreciated how she helped us strengthen our communication, navigate conflict in healthy ways, and build upon the foundation we already had. Her wisdom and encouragement gave us practical tools that we still carry into our marriage today.

Willow & Noah
Marriage
Our relationship with our kids has improved significantly as we’ve learned to handle marital conflict in healthier ways. There is so much less stress in our home now, and we’ve seen our children grow in their relationships with each other and with us as we’ve healed as a couple. We’re far from perfect, but Vanderly helped us identify the root issues beneath the surface, navigate hard conversations in a healthy way, and truly enjoy being a family again.

Kimberly & Peter
Marriage