Release Trauma & Rewire Emotional Patterns

A Spirit-led, neuroscience-based pathway to lasting clarity, resilience, and peace rooted in who God created you to be.
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As a widow and single mom, I have participated in psychological counseling, support groups, spiritual direction and mindfulness practices during this difficult season of recovery and growth.

But when God brought me to Vanderly, through the strong recommendation of people I trust, I finally found much-needed traction in my healing journey.

To put it simply- Vanderly is a GAME CHANGER!

Her insight, skill and innovative techniques as a neuroscience coach have made a huge difference in my life emotionally, spiritually and relationally.

She brings a wealth of knowledge, wisdom and perspective about the big picture of her clients’ lives, along with practical action steps you can implement right away.

She is present, powerful and peaceful as she partners with the Holy Spirit during our sessions, which impacts my mindset, nervous system and experience of God.

I whole heartedly recommend Vanderly to anyone seeking transformation, healing and progress on their journey!

Corrie
Grief Coaching Client
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Feeling Stuck or Worn Out?

If you’ve been in survival mode—numb, overwhelmed, or exhausted—this experience is designed to support people who sense there's more to life but aren't sure how to shift out of old patterns.











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What Happens in a Session?

Each 60-minute online session blends Spirit-led insight, practical neuroscience-based tools, prayer, and time for reflection.
Together we:
• Explore how your nervous system reacts to stress
• Identify patterns that keep you stuck
• Support emotional awareness and healthy responses
• Invite God's presence into your process of change

This is growth-focused support — not clinical diagnosis or clinical mental health treatment.
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Experience Lasting Change

People who engage in this process often report:
• Greater clarity about emotional patterns
• A sense of inner peace and grounded confidence
• Tools to move forward with resilience
• Deeper connection with God and others

This approach is about lasting transformation — not surface relief.




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Start Your Healing Journey

Ready to step into deeper peace, clarity, and emotional freedom?
Book your first session today or save with a multi-session package.












Who This Is For


For men and women navigating:
• Grief or loss
• Long-standing emotional blocks
• Life transitions
• Feelings of anxiety, overwhelm, or disconnection

These sessions are for individuals ready to move beyond survival mode and toward wholeness — spiritually, emotionally, and relationally.

Meet Vanderly

Vanderly is a Certified Neuroscience Coach and licensed Minister with over 25 years of experience guiding people to understand how the brain and emotions interact.
She helps individuals:
• Build self-awareness and emotional insight
• Grow in spiritual and personal well-being
• Apply neuroscience-based principles alongside faith
• Develop practical skills for daily life

Her work is deeply rooted in both neuroscience and spiritual formation — supporting people to live more fully aligned with their identity in Christ.
Certified Neuroscience Coach with 25+ years of experience.
Licensed & Ordained Minister passionate about spiritual healing.
Trauma Healing Practitioner
Systemic Family Constellations Certification
Neuropsycho Therapy Certification
Internal Systems Practitioner
Vanderly Cillo

Hear From Lives Transformed

  • I have tried many different coaching techniques, but Vanderly's approach is unique. It's been incredibly helpful to guide me in my journey, whether it be with handling my children, processing my grief, or navigating deep family patterns and dynamics. I deeply respect both her scope of neuroscience training and application as well as her breath of life experiences. She centers her sessions on God's path for me, and she challenges me in so many ways. I have grown so much from my sessions with Vanderly.
    Nichole Smylie
    Processing Grief
  • I absolutely love the way that brain science is transfused into your counseling approach. It connects your mind, body, and spirit so you can become more whole.

    I have began to be conscious of my physical feelings in my body and understood the way that my body functions and how that alerts me to my emotions or helps me understand myself. I have also begun to be more intimately aware of my partner and making space for their needs and emotions.
    Faith Schaller
    Emotional Healing
  • I had gone through a handful of therapists, but nothing was ever effective for me. Vanderly took a more logical, scientific approach that I responded to a lot better than the more conventional “therapy talk”. 

    I’m graduated now, and I have grown significantly as a person with all the tactics I’ve learned in my sessions to deal with anxiety, and feel equipped to handle any other problems I have and will inevitably run into later on in life.
    Kaylie Waldrup
    Emotional Healing
  • I was in the midst of the deepest and most painful season of my life that was caused by betrayal. I felt hopeless in many areas of my life and at times I couldn’t even catch my breath. I learned so many tools on how to take back control of my body and my emotions.

    At the end of conversations with Vanderly, I found myself carrying so much more peace which allowed me to process even better with the Lord. I am more hopeful about situations.
    Anonymous
    Emotional Healing
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Jamie

Relationship Transition

Working with Coach Vanderly Cillo over the past two months has been nothing short of life-changing. I began our sessions weekly, and we’ve recently transitioned to every other week—but her impact remains constant. During a season of major transitions in multiple areas of my life, I found myself overwhelmed with uncertainty and anxiety. Vanderly has helped me navigate these feelings with grace, compassion, and clarity.
What sets her apart is her unique ability to integrate the science of how our brains and bodies respond to stress with a deep spiritual understanding rooted in faith. She gently but powerfully equips me with tools to challenge negative thinking patterns, combat self-doubt, and shift my mindset. Most importantly, she continually points me back to the unwavering presence of God—even in moments when I feel distant from Him.
Through her coaching, I’m learning not only to manage the unknown but to embrace it as part of a bigger, beautiful story. I am so grateful for her guidance, wisdom, and the way she honors both psychology and faith in every session.

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Megan

Emotional Healing

Vanderly starting working with me in the darkest moments of my life. I had nearly given up that change for my situation was even possible. I was a walking, talking, breathing ball of wounds. But she saw me, not for who I was in my pain, but the woman I was underneath all the hurt. Her guidance was the inspiration for radical change in my life and situation. I finally felt the ability to admit that I was being abused, and the courage to take action against it. I learned how to breathe again--I learned how to find and hold onto peace again. I found my true self, with Vanderly, when my true self had been missing and hidden for years.

Vanderly is a Soul Care Practitioner, Certified Neuroscience Coach, and Licensed Minister who supports individuals in emotional and spiritual growth through faith-based and neuroscience-informed practices.

Professional Disclosure: Vanderly Cillo is an ordained minister and certified coach. She is not a licensed mental health professional in the State of Florida and does not provide psychotherapy, diagnosis, or treatment of mental health disorders. Services are offered as pastoral care, certified neuroscience coaching, and faith-based support for emotional and relational growth and are not a substitute for licensed mental health care.
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