Release Trauma & Rewire Emotional Patterns

A Spirit-led, neuroscience-based path to emotional freedom and deeper identity in Christ.

As a widow and single mom, I have participated in psychological counseling, support groups, spiritual direction and mindfulness practices during this difficult season of recovery and growth.

But when God brought me to Vanderly, through the strong recommendation of people I trust, I finally found much-needed traction in my healing journey.

To put it simply- Vanderly is a GAME CHANGER!

Her insight, skill and innovative techniques as a counselor have made a huge difference in my life emotionally, spiritually and relationally.

She brings a wealth of knowledge, wisdom and perspective about the big picture of her clients’ lives, along with practical action steps you can implement right away.

She is present, powerful and peaceful as she partners with the Holy Spirit during our sessions, which impacts my mindset, nervous system and experience of God.

I whole heartedly recommend Vanderly to anyone seeking transformation, healing and progress on their journey!

Corrie
Grief Counseling Client
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Feeling Stuck or Worn Out?

You’ve been in survival mode for too long—numb, anxious, or just emotionally exhausted. These sessions are for those who sense there’s more but don’t know how to break the cycle.
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What Happens in a Session?

Each 60-minute online session is Spirit-led and neuroscience-informed. We’ll use brain-body tools, prayer, and reflection to gently uncover root causes and release emotional blocks.
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Experience Lasting Change

Clients leave with peace, clarity, and resilience—free from old patterns, rooted in lasting joy, and deeply connected to God. This isn’t surface relief; it’s healing at the root.
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Start Your Healing Journey

Book your first session today or save with a 6-session package. It’s time to align with who God created you to be, the whole, joyful, and free you you've been longing for.

For Men and women struggling with grief, anxiety, heartbreak, or long-standing emotional blocks.

These 1:1 online sessions are for those ready to move beyond survival. Using neuroscience-informed tools and prayer, we’ll uncover how your brain has been protecting you and guide you toward lasting emotional and spiritual healing.

Meet Vanderly

Vanderly is a certified neuroscience coach, counselor, and minister with over 25 years of experience. She helps people understand how the brain and emotions work so they can grow, heal, and connect more deeply with God and others. Whether teaching parents, mentoring women, or speaking to groups, she makes brain science both practical and spirit-led.
Certified Neuroscience Coach with 25+ years of experience.
Licensed & Ordained Minister passionate about spiritual healing.
Trauma Healing Practitioner
Systemic Family Constellations Certification
Neuropsycho Therapy Certification
Internal Systems Practitioner
Vanderly Cillo

Hear From Lives Transformed

  • I have tried many different counseling techniques, but Vanderly's approach is unique. It's been incredibly helpful to guide me in my journey, whether it be with handling my children, processing my grief, or navigating deep family patterns and dynamics. I deeply respect both her scope of neuroscience training and application as well as her breath of life experiences. She centers her sessions on God's path for me, and she challenges me in so many ways. I have grown so much from my sessions with Vanderly.
    Nichole Smylie
    Processing Grief
  • Working with Coach Vanderly Cillo over the past two months has been nothing short of life-changing. I began our sessions weekly, and we’ve recently transitioned to every other week—but her impact remains constant. During a season of major transitions in multiple areas of my life, I found myself overwhelmed with uncertainty and anxiety. Vanderly has helped me navigate these feelings with grace, compassion, and clarity.

    What sets her apart is her unique ability to integrate the science of how our brains and bodies respond to stress with a deep spiritual understanding rooted in faith. She gently but powerfully equips me with tools to challenge negative thinking patterns, combat self-doubt, and shift my mindset. Most importantly, she continually points me back to the unwavering presence of God—even in moments when I feel distant from Him.

    Through her coaching, I’m learning not only to manage the unknown but to embrace it as part of a bigger, beautiful story. I am so grateful for her guidance, wisdom, and the way she honors both psychology and faith in every session.
    Jamie
    Relationship Transition
  • I absolutely love the way that brain science is transfused into your counseling approach. It connects your mind, body, and spirit so you can receive counseling wholly.

    I have began to be conscious of my physical feelings in my body and understood the way that my body functions and how that alerts me to my emotions or helps me understand myself. I have also begun to be more intimately aware of my partner and making space for their needs and emotions.
    Faith Schaller
    Emotional Healing
  • I had gone through a handful of therapists, but nothing was ever effective for me. Vanderly took a more logical, scientific approach that I responded to a lot better than the more conventional “therapy talk”. 

    I’m graduated now, and I have grown significantly as a person with all the tactics I’ve learned in my sessions to deal with anxiety, and feel equipped to handle any other problems I have and will inevitably run into later on in life.
    Kaylie Waldrup
    Emotional Healing
  • Vanderly starting working with me in the darkest moments of my life. I had nearly given up that change for my situation was even possible. I was a walking, talking, breathing ball of wounds. But she saw me, not for who I was in my pain, but the woman I was underneath all the hurt. Her guidance was the inspiration for radical change in my life and situation. I finally felt the ability to admit that I was being abused, and the courage to take action against it. I learned how to breathe again--I learned how to find and hold onto peace again. I found my true self, with Vanderly, when my true self had been missing and hidden for years.
    Megan
    Emotional Healing
  • I was in the midst of the deepest and most painful season of my life that was caused by betrayal. I felt hopeless in many areas of my life and at times I couldn’t even catch my breath. I learned so many tools on how to take back control of my body and my emotions.

    At the end of conversations with Vanderly, I found myself carrying so much more peace which allowed me to process even better with the Lord. I am more hopeful about situations.
    Anonymous
    Emotional Healing
Jamie headshot

Jamie

Relationship Transition

Working with Coach Vanderly Cillo over the past two months has been nothing short of life-changing. I began our sessions weekly, and we’ve recently transitioned to every other week—but her impact remains constant. During a season of major transitions in multiple areas of my life, I found myself overwhelmed with uncertainty and anxiety. Vanderly has helped me navigate these feelings with grace, compassion, and clarity.
What sets her apart is her unique ability to integrate the science of how our brains and bodies respond to stress with a deep spiritual understanding rooted in faith. She gently but powerfully equips me with tools to challenge negative thinking patterns, combat self-doubt, and shift my mindset. Most importantly, she continually points me back to the unwavering presence of God—even in moments when I feel distant from Him.
Through her coaching, I’m learning not only to manage the unknown but to embrace it as part of a bigger, beautiful story. I am so grateful for her guidance, wisdom, and the way she honors both psychology and faith in every session.

Jamie headshot

Jamie

Relationship Transition

Working with Coach Vanderly Cillo over the past two months has been nothing short of life-changing. I began our sessions weekly, and we’ve recently transitioned to every other week—but her impact remains constant. During a season of major transitions in multiple areas of my life, I found myself overwhelmed with uncertainty and anxiety. Vanderly has helped me navigate these feelings with grace, compassion, and clarity.
What sets her apart is her unique ability to integrate the science of how our brains and bodies respond to stress with a deep spiritual understanding rooted in faith. She gently but powerfully equips me with tools to challenge negative thinking patterns, combat self-doubt, and shift my mindset. Most importantly, she continually points me back to the unwavering presence of God—even in moments when I feel distant from Him.
Through her coaching, I’m learning not only to manage the unknown but to embrace it as part of a bigger, beautiful story. I am so grateful for her guidance, wisdom, and the way she honors both psychology and faith in every session.

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