Sacred Gatherings for Life’s Milestones

Blessing Way ceremonies are sacred spirit led experiences designed to mark meaningful transitions with intention, prayer, and the loving support of an intimate community, woven together with thoughtful and creative expression.

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I have had two of my own Blessing Way ceremonies with Vanderly and have attended several more. I really appreciate how intentionally personal Vanderly is, always consulting with you making sure she knows what you are comfortable with and if there is anything in particular you want your circle to be asking the Lord about. It’s such a precious and special time of faith-building sisterhood, and you come away with mementos and record of things that were said to go back to again and again. At each ceremony, a symbolic piece of jewelry is given as a way to remember the time together and in 4 years, I have never been without the bracelet I received before the birth of my daughter. I will be forever grateful.

Jenna

Bride & New Mother

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More Than an Event—It's A Holy Moment

These ceremonies are sacred, Spirit-led gatherings that honor your milestone with prayer, intention, and the loving support of your community.

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Personalized & Spirit-Led Ceremonies

Each gathering is thoughtfully designed to reflect your unique story and season—whether you're entering marriage, motherhood, healing, or a new calling.

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Mark Your Moment with Meaning

Held in homes, retreats, or sacred venues, these ceremonies transform transitions into powerful rites of passage, full of joy, honor, and spiritual preparation.

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Let’s Create Something Beautiful Together

Ceremonies begin at $595 and vary by location and needs. Use the form below to start planning your personalized Blessing Way experience.

For women, couples, and individuals entering a sacred life transition—
marriage, motherhood, loss, or a new season of calling.

These half-day ceremonies are Spirit-led, prayerful gatherings designed to honor your milestone with intention, joy, and the loving presence of your community. Each Blessing Way is personalized to reflect your unique story—transforming transition into a holy moment marked by celebration, clarity, and spiritual strength.

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Meet Vanderly

Over twenty years ago, I hosted my very first Blessing Way ceremony while pregnant with my second child. What began as a simple search for meaningful ways to feel emotionally and spiritually prepared became a beautiful discovery: gathering women in an intimate circle to speak life, pray, and bless one another in Christ.

Since then, I’ve facilitated over eighty Blessing Way ceremonies—marking milestones such as womanhood, marriage, motherhood, milestone birthdays, and new beginnings. These sacred gatherings have become one of my deepest callings and love languages, creating space for women to champion one another and glorify God together.

Certified Neuroscience Coach with 25+ years of experience.

Licensed & Ordained Minister passionate about spiritual healing.

Prophetic speaker and teacher who equips others to encounter God for identity, healing, and freedom.

Gifted dream interpreter with over a decade of experience, having interpreted thousands of dreams and trained others in the practice.

Blessing Way Ceremonies

Vanderly’s Blessing way process was so intentional and curated to what was meaningful to me that it instantly made me weep. I truly felt the presence of the Lord during my blessing way. The way that she guides the moment with such kindness, strength, and tenderness left me feeling empowered, loved, and known. I am so thankful that I had this experience before I became a wife!
Makenna
Blessing Way Ceremony as a Bride
My blessing way experience was beautiful. There was so much attention to detail which made the event so meaningful. I especially loved having my daughter and best friends there to share the moment with. Vanderly’s passion for the blessing way was apparent in the way she prepared and facilitated each section specifically catered to me. The ceremony was so personalized. She made the evening very special and sweet.
Paola
Birthday Blessing Way Ceremony
My Blessing Way ceremony impacted me in such a deep and profound way, both in the moment and into the next season of my life. I’ve returned to the words spoken over me again and again for encouragement and direction. I even wore the dried flower crown from that day at my wedding, which made it even more meaningful to me. Having my closest friends speak love, truth, and life into me was something I’ll never forget.
Britt
Blessing Way for a Bride
I absolutely treasure the memories of the blessing way I was gifted before my wedding! The intentionality, wisdom, and love that was poured into this event is something I look back on so fondly. The Lord spoke to me profoundly through this experience, and the truth spoken over me are messages that have helped to shape who I am today. I felt so valued by the Lord and by the women around me during my blessing way.

My favorite moment from my blessing way was when the ladies were tossing flower petals over me and declaring the Lord‘s truth over me. The Lord has used that imagery to speak to me so many times since then! Flowers are a special part of my relationship with God and I believe that might have been when it started.
Hailey
Blessing Way for a Bride
My Blessing Way ceremony impacted me in such a deep and profound way, both in the moment and into the next season of my life. I’ve returned to the words spoken over me again and again for encouragement and direction. I even wore the dried flower crown from that day at my wedding, which made it even more meaningful to me. Having my closest friends speak love, truth, and life into me was something I’ll never forget.
Brandy
Birthday Blessing Way Ceremony