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Build Calm, Connected Marriages & Homes

Marriage and parenting coaching grounded in neuroscience and faith.
Whether you’re navigating marital tension, toddler tantrums, or teenage withdrawal, these sessions offer Spirit-led insight, encouragement, and simple neuroscience tools to help you restore safety and connection in your marriage, cultivate a home atmosphere that reflects God’s design for peace, freedom, and secure love and raise emotionally resilient, spiritually grounded children.
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Before meeting with Vanderly, I struggled with uncertainty and anxiety with regards to how to best raise my three daughters. Often, it felt as though there was little progress being made, my efforts were exhaustingly futile, and that all the while, the time of their childhood was quickly waning. After meeting regularly with Vanderly, I became not only more confident in my parenting choices, but also better able to identify my girls’ needs and how to respond effectively. While we will always have something to improve on, I have noticed so much more peace and harmony in my relationships, an increased ability to regulate my own emotions, and a clearer lens from which to view both my children and myself.

Rachel & David
Parenting Client
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You Don’t Have to Do Family Alone

Marriage, parenting, and family life can feel overwhelming when conflict, disconnection, or exhaustion set in. These sessions offer more than advice—they create space for grace, clarity, and Spirit-led wisdom to help you lead your home with confidence and peace.
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Practical & Spirit-Led Guidance

Each 60-minute online session integrates neuroscience-informed coaching with biblical truth. You’ll learn how the brain responds to stress and connection, how to strengthen emotional regulation, and how to build secure, loving relationships in marriage and family—rooted in Christ.
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Building Connected, Resilient Families

Whether you’re preparing for marriage, repairing trust, or raising children, this work goes beyond behavior management. Together, we cultivate rhythms of safety, joy, and connection so your relationships can reflect God’s design for love, freedom, and growth.
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Book Your Session

Choose a single session or a 5-session package for marriage, premarital, or parent coaching. Step into a new rhythm where science and Spirit meet—and where your family can flourish in God’s presence.

For couples and parents navigating marriage, premarital preparation, toddler tantrums, teenage disconnection, or family stress.

These 1:1 coaching sessions equip you with neuroscience-informed, Spirit-led tools to understand the brain, respond with grace rather than reactivity, and build healthy rhythms of connection. Learn to strengthen your relationship, support emotional regulation, and cultivate homes marked by peace, safety, and joy.

Meet Vanderly

Vanderly helps parents understand the emotional world and brain development of their children so they can parent with wisdom, connection, and grace. Drawing from decades of experience as a neuroscience coach, spiritual director, and Montessori educator, she equips families with practical tools rooted in emotional intelligence, attachment, and biblical truth, helping parents build strong, secure relationships that shape their children’s hearts and minds for life.
Certified Neuroscience Coach
Developed mentoring curriculum for teens and young adults.
Parent Coach helping families build emotionally connected homes.
Former Montessori educator and director of 3 schools.
Provided leadership for the care and development of a children’s home overseas.
Vanderly Cillo

Hear From Lives Transformed

  • My daughter Ioved learning strategies and brain based science about what was going on with her emotions and behaviors yet also being supported spiritually. Vanderly was able to equip my daughter with practical steps and also empower and educate her. The growth I have seen in her is amazing and I wouldn't trust anyone else with helping my family and family!
    Abby
    Parent
  • As a parent, there’s nothing more valuable to me than knowing someone is speaking life, truth, and wisdom into your child—and that’s exactly what Vanderly has done for my daughter.

    Over the past season of coaching, Vanderly has helped my 10-year-old not only regulate her emotions and express her feelings more clearly, but she’s also taught her how to listen to God’s voice and trust herself.

    The growth I’ve seen is beautiful: more peace, more confidence, more self-awareness. I’ve felt such peace knowing my daughter is being poured into by someone who truly sees her, believes in her, and points her to the Lord.

    I’m incredibly grateful for Vanderly’s role in my daughter’s life and wholeheartedly recommend her to any parent looking for a coach who blends emotional growth, spiritual depth, and genuine care!
    Deanna
    Parent
  • Working with Vanderly has transformed my understanding of joy as deeply relational and empowered my parenting through concise, impactful one-liners. Her ability to listen, offer profound spiritual direction, and discern God’s voice in real-time has been invaluable as I navigate the complexities of homeschooling, motherhood, and relationships. She’s truly a gift!
    Jessica
    Parent
  • My husband and I had an amazing experience doing premarital coaching with Vanderly! She met us exactly where we were, offering honest guidance without judgment. We really appreciated how she helped us strengthen our communication, navigate conflict in healthy ways, and build upon the foundation we already had. Her wisdom and encouragement gave us practical tools that we still carry into our marriage today.
    Willow & Noah
    Marriage
  • Our relationship with our kids has improved significantly as we’ve learned to handle marital conflict in healthier ways. There is so much less stress in our home now, and we’ve seen our children grow in their relationships with each other and with us as we’ve healed as a couple. We’re far from perfect, but Vanderly helped us identify the root issues beneath the surface, navigate hard conversations in a healthy way, and truly enjoy being a family again.
    Kimberly & Peter
    Marriage
Vanderly is a Soul Care Practitioner, Certified Neuroscience Coach, and Licensed Minister who supports individuals in emotional and spiritual growth through faith-based and neuroscience-informed practices.

Professional Disclosure: Vanderly Cillo is an ordained minister and certified coach. She is not a licensed mental health professional in the State of Florida and does not provide psychotherapy, diagnosis, or treatment of mental health disorders. Services are offered as pastoral care, certified neuroscience coaching, and faith-based support for emotional and relational growth and are not a substitute for licensed mental health care.
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